How can I be a Christian Ally?Rachel Hickling, CSI Youth
Happy Pride Month TYTANZ Whanau! |
As Christians many of us are taught that the word ‘pride’ is problematic because it ‘comes before the fall’, or is boastful and entitled. The Pride of Pride month is entirely different. It is healthy, whole, and holy. Or a holy protest as Wendy May Jacobs fittingly describes it.[1] Pride is a of celebration of life and courageous self-respect.
We cannot celebrate Pride without the recognition that the church has caused great sorrow for many people of diverse sexual and gender identities. This sits heavy on my heart. How do we move forward as allies with the knowledge of the hurt and damage that has been done?
There are many affirming churches who seek to celebrate the marginalised and oppressed, calling them forth and accepting them for who they are and were created to be. If you are looking for an affirming church diversechurch.co.nz has a directory of churches over New Zealand.
We cannot celebrate Pride without the recognition that the church has caused great sorrow for many people of diverse sexual and gender identities. This sits heavy on my heart. How do we move forward as allies with the knowledge of the hurt and damage that has been done?
There are many affirming churches who seek to celebrate the marginalised and oppressed, calling them forth and accepting them for who they are and were created to be. If you are looking for an affirming church diversechurch.co.nz has a directory of churches over New Zealand.
So here are seven ways to be a Christian Ally:
Pride Month honours the Stonewall Uprising of 1969 in Manhattan.[2] Stonewall was the tipping point for the Gay Liberation movement in the United States. Educating yourself about history and the different experiences of LGBTQIA+ people is essential. Expecting our LGBTQIA+ loved ones and friends, or even strangers to explain to us about the vast community places an unnecessary burden on them. As Allies it is important we seek out information ourselves. Don’t know where to start? Watch this YouTube Video https://youtu.be/Q1D65SxzojI
How are you being an Ally?
Peace be with you and Happy Pride,
Love,
Rachel
(she/her)
- 1. Show up for the LGBQTIA+ people in your life.
- 2. Listen!
- 3. Use your voice!
- 4. Learn about LGBTQIA+ History.
Pride Month honours the Stonewall Uprising of 1969 in Manhattan.[2] Stonewall was the tipping point for the Gay Liberation movement in the United States. Educating yourself about history and the different experiences of LGBTQIA+ people is essential. Expecting our LGBTQIA+ loved ones and friends, or even strangers to explain to us about the vast community places an unnecessary burden on them. As Allies it is important we seek out information ourselves. Don’t know where to start? Watch this YouTube Video https://youtu.be/Q1D65SxzojI
- 5. Know your privilege.
- 6. Know the Bible.
- 7. Let your wallet speak.
How are you being an Ally?
Peace be with you and Happy Pride,
Love,
Rachel
(she/her)
[1] https://www.irishtimes.com/news/social-affairs/religion-and-beliefs/thinking-anew-proud-to-be-an-ally-1.4582338
[2] https://www.loc.gov/lgbt-pride-month/
[2] https://www.loc.gov/lgbt-pride-month/
GLOSSARY AND HELPFUL TERMINOLOGY EXPLAINED
Glossary
Ally – People who are LGBTQIA+ themselves yet are supportive of the community in many different aspects.
Gender Identity – A personal sense of self. Not dictated by the organs a person may or may not have.
LGBTQIA+ - This acronym is a blanket term for the Queer community, not by any means an exhaustive list of identities. It stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, Asexual, and the plus reminds us that this does not cover everyone who identifies as non-cisgender or non-heterosexual
Pride Month- A celebratory month to recognise the contribution of LGBTQIA+ people to society, history, and politics around the world. Pride is a celebration of simply being – of being alive, of being visible, things which have not always been a given for queer communities.
Sex - Refers to the bodily characteristics connected to the binary sex categories of male and female.
Some useful resources and affirming people:
Ally – People who are LGBTQIA+ themselves yet are supportive of the community in many different aspects.
Gender Identity – A personal sense of self. Not dictated by the organs a person may or may not have.
LGBTQIA+ - This acronym is a blanket term for the Queer community, not by any means an exhaustive list of identities. It stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, Asexual, and the plus reminds us that this does not cover everyone who identifies as non-cisgender or non-heterosexual
Pride Month- A celebratory month to recognise the contribution of LGBTQIA+ people to society, history, and politics around the world. Pride is a celebration of simply being – of being alive, of being visible, things which have not always been a given for queer communities.
Sex - Refers to the bodily characteristics connected to the binary sex categories of male and female.
Some useful resources and affirming people:
- New Zealand Queer History. https://natlib.govt.nz/researchers/guides/queer-history
- Rainbow Youth https://ry.org.nz/
- Diverse church resources and Church directory https://diversechurch.co.nz
- LGBTQ+ and Theology 101 https://www.qchristian.org/resources/theology
- @Rev.Lizzie on Instagram
- @Revbethany on TikTok
A note on this weeks TYTANZ Blog:
The Methodist Church of New Zealand Te Hāhi Weteriana o Aotearoa, possesses a unique and distinctive story in relation to Human Sexuality, LGBQTIA+ community and ordained ministry. We acknowledge, with grace and understanding, the diversity of views, perspectives and voices that make up the many different understandings in the church, and the journey it continues to be on to this very day.
Today's blog is reflective of one of those views, but is no ways an attempt to change minds - rather, it is an attempt to promote safe, transparent and open talanoa in life of the church. Young people are owed, and should be afforded this opportunity, with a spirit of Grace and Peace.
If you're looking for more church based resources about the story of the Church in relation to the above, click on the link below.
Today's blog is reflective of one of those views, but is no ways an attempt to change minds - rather, it is an attempt to promote safe, transparent and open talanoa in life of the church. Young people are owed, and should be afforded this opportunity, with a spirit of Grace and Peace.
If you're looking for more church based resources about the story of the Church in relation to the above, click on the link below.
Some Questions to Consider:
- How can we promote safe conversation around Pride and Human Sexuality to our young people?
- What steps can I take to be a Christian ally to people on the margins of society
- Who might need prayer in relation to todays Blog?